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Friday 9 March 2018

Back to Where We Once Belonged






We spent almost two decades living right by the sea - just a couple of hundred yards from where I took this photograph.




On our last visit,  it was wintery and almost deserted.   Perfect!

   




During the summer months there are plenty of  attractions for all the visitors and holiday-makers.     Sandy beaches, donkey rides, paddling pools, a boating lake, bingo and  'penny' arcades (my boys loved those!), big stretches of sand dunes, the long promenade...




Over the years we have walked our various and assorted dogs (Trixie, Kim, Pip and Toby 1)  for miles along the prom,   paddled in the icy seas, collected seashells  to decorate the countless and increasingly complex sandcastles and fortifications built by our children, wolfed down sandy sandwiches and eaten many ice cream cornets, always reserving the 'flea's cornet' for the dog.   We watched kite flying competitions on suitably breezy days, shivered in our jackets as we watched the firework displays and bonfire on the beach, and enjoyed the annual carnival parades.   

When we lived there the best fish and chip shop in town was tucked away down a side street, well away from the prom and all the tourist bits.






Like so many things, that has changed.

The old pier is now a highly regarded fish and chip restaurant.    Eat in, or eat out.      We decided to treat ourselves to some today, and they certainly passed muster.     Crispy batter and perfectly fresh, tasty fish, proper chips - £4.25 for a medium portion.

A very nice treat.   The only trouble is that neither of us could finish our meal, the portions were ridiculously large.    We took the leftovers home for the cats and Toby, the birds did pretty well from them, too.    Next time we'll one portion between us, if we go again.    I hate waste.





This photograph was taken in the late 1950's.   My mother and I are in the middle, my older brother is on the far right, the other people were neighbours.      We had travelled by train for a day at the seaside,   not many people had cars back then.


It is the seaside town of Cleethorpes.   





The Greenwich meridian line runs through here,  with a helpful signpost which tells us:

London is 143 miles.
North Pole 2,517 miles
South Pole 9,919 miles
New York 3,481 miles

Back in 1830 there were about 480 residents, and it was becoming known as a health and holiday resort, with bracing air and good sea bathing.       These days the population is in the region of 30,000.     

We used to live in the old part of town, the avenue led straight down to the beach







and this is our old house.       It was a wonderful place, full of character,  with spacious rooms and a really friendly atmosphere.     We had it for almost two decades.   Our children did much of their growing up in that house.     

The biggest problem was the roof, every time there was a gale I feared for the tiles.   We had the highest roof in the street, the wind would come rushing up from the shore and our roof was what it crashed into first, it gave me many sleepless nights.

We had to make several insurance claims over the years.

Of course the day came when a big house was no longer needed.      Two of our brood had flown the nest and the third was away at university.   

That is the longest period of time that I have spent in one place.

Happy memories. 

It was an enjoyable visit but it was good to get home.




Today I am linking in with Good Fences from around the World where you can find links to plenty of  other fences.

14 comments:

  1. What a lovely house. You must miss it still, and being so close to the beach. It will be a huge wrench to leave our old farmhouse too, but needs must, though we have been here 30 years this month. Still, no-one seems to be interested enough to buy it so . . .

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    1. It was a nice old house and we were happy there, but we moved on to my dream cottage, so I didn't mind. Unfortunately, it wasn't my husband's choice, he was restless, so we moved here.

      Sorry to hear that you are not able to sell it and move on, most frustrating, a kind of limbo, I imagine. Perhaps the spring will bring renewed interest and firm commitments...then it will be all go, go, go! My fingers are crossed for you.

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  2. What wonderful memories you have of your old place!
    Have a great weekend!

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    1. Hello Lea, Thank you for visiting. They were happy days.
      I hope the sun shines wherever you are.

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  3. Nice to be able to go back. One of the places I grew up was in the Philippine Islands. Recently a friend asked if I'd ever want to go back to see it. We were talking about it because his son had just been to the town I lived in for work. I said I doubt I'd be able to find my way around. I was 2 when we arrived and 7 when we left. I have been back to other places in fact I insisted we walk the route I took to school so we could figure out how far it was. It was a mile. I was in 1st and 2nd grade and had to come home for lunch too. The last time our oldest daughter was here she wanted to visit the house she grew up in so we drove there, parked the car at the school and walked by the house and then on the path through the woods to the pond and back. I have a photo of that, maybe I should post that too.

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    1. Hello Marcia, That sounds such a nice trip down memory lane. Isn't it funny how after all these decades, we find that we can still remember the way to our old school(s). We passed one of the schools which our children attended, it looks almost like a fortress these days. A terrible sign of the times we live in.

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  4. What wonderful seaside memories and what a gorgeous house.
    Margaret P

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    1. Hello Margaret, The joy about that house was that my three children could all find room to get away from one another. The quirkiness of the place was a delight and the location perfect for that stage of our lives. I wouldn't want to live there now!

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  5. #1 When I see a photo like this, I am always reminded of a 'back at the beginning of time' henge. :-)

    #2-5 Perfect, peaceful time, for a visit.

    #6 Delightful old photo.

    #7 You can stand on the actual Greenwich meridian line!

    #8 Beautiful! What a lovely home, for a growing family. Oh do you have old pictures, of inside it? You "know," that seeing the outside, I'd want to see the inside too!!!!!!! :-)

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    1. I do have photographs, somewhere. Perhaps I'll come across them when I get around to a serious declutter/spring clean, Luna.

      I feel much better today, thank you. I don't get a lot of migraines these days (I know the triggers to avoid) but every now and then usually when I get overtired or stressed, wham! They always seem to last three days and cause severe pain, nausea, extreme fatigue. A nuisance, but it has gone!

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    2. Glad it has passed.

      One more reason, to not take on that Village Event, by yourself.

      I just *had* to slip that in. My bad! ,-)))))))))))

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  6. Hope you are feeling better, also....

    Hugs...

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  7. We have been living in our house for the last. 35 odd years, if my lads moved out we would be off down to Wales but the two of us built it to want it is now so has a lot of memories

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    1. Hi Bill, It can be difficult to make the break, for one reason or another. At least you have your caravan ready and waiting for you, in Wales.

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